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Ray Stear Posts: 1930 Joined: 25th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 09:17 on 7th April 2009 I think to rekindle an old flame is thoroughly pointless, otherwise that person would not be an 'old flame' would they? Sometimes it is difficult to know if and when the flame went out though! |
Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 15:27 on 7th April 2009 Wow, this little thread opened up some thought provoking comments! As to answering my own question...as far as rekindling an old flame, no. While it may have been difficult going through the break up at the time, I have always found that I learned something important from the experience and it was indeed time to move on. I don't know if things are "meant to be" or even if all things happen for a reason, but I do believe that we can "choose" to learn something from every experience and become a better person for it. |
Debbie Adams Posts: 2043 Joined: 8th Mar 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 03:26 on 8th April 2009 Sorry Diana I kinda go off direction sometimes, sorry for the babbling;-(
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Xxxx Xxxx Posts: 292 Joined: 22nd Mar 2009 Location: Canada | quotePosted at 04:16 on 8th April 2009 there is no rule against babbling... who could stop a brook? |
Debbie Adams Posts: 2043 Joined: 8th Mar 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 04:18 on 8th April 2009 Thanks Anna, I guess my name should be Brook instead of Debbie,,lol |
Xxxx Xxxx Posts: 292 Joined: 22nd Mar 2009 Location: Canada | quotePosted at 10:17 on 8th April 2009 Well, your name is Brook if you wish! |
Bob T Posts: 934 Joined: 8th Jan 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 17:51 on 8th April 2009 Sometimes the re-kindling (or attempt) can bring about closure to past relationships thwarted by circumstance. |
Bob T Posts: 934 Joined: 8th Jan 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 17:52 on 8th April 2009 ...of course, it can also remind you why the relationship sucked to begin with... |
Richard Sellers Posts: 4691 Joined: 16th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 17:55 on 8th April 2009 When the flame was extinguished,there was a reason...remember what Smokey the bear said,,,,"Only You Can Prevent Forest Fires" So.....Dont light up !!! |
Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 18:02 on 8th April 2009 OMG and LMAO at Captain Bob and Rhett!!! |