Syd Harling needs your support members

Syd Harling has lost his dear wife members and I thought you might wish to send your thoughts and words of support.

So sorry to hear this news Syd but know that Anna and I are thinking of you and the family at this sad time. 

Oh Syd, I am so very sorry to hear of your wife's demise!  I know you have been tending and devoted to her and that you were both looking forward to your trip to England in the Summer.

My deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! 

Oh my goodness! What sad news!

My deepest condolenses to you Syd. May you find comfort as the weeks pass, and know that you are in our thuoghts and prayers.

What a sad year this has been for at least three POE members, who have lost their spouses. So sad! 

Thanks so very much for your kind words everyone. I always thought the POE group was made up of good people and now I am positive of that.

It has been a tough 2 or 3 years and in particular the last 5 weeks.

She was my lover, wife, soul mate and best friend for over 40 years and getting along without her will be tough; but living without her might just be easier than watching her suffer. Mourn not for the departed but support rather those remaining as they deal with their loss. Thanks everyone and especially to Ron for starting this thread. You are clearly  good people Ron  and  Anna.

I have decided to go ahead and take the trip to England in June even though Rose won't be with me. It will help to clear my mind and I can assess whether or not I should now relocate to England.

I don't know if any of you who are in England would want me to make contact while I am there but if there are I would like that.

I've spent most all this weekend in an very touchy health problem, but  after an four hour operation.. an recovery....so far my sister is alive...she is still in recovery phase though....Friday I spent up 24 hours before 3 hours of sleep....then went down from about 10 to 5 am....and have been at the hospital from 6 am this morning until dinner time. It takes an bit of an toll on me. I tell you being an "psychic" intutive, her coming back to see my brother and his wife, an my hubby and me there, I felt such an unspeakabel "love" coming from her to know we were there for her...it almost brought tears to my eyes...but I held them back because of her.

 I'm glad you were able to spend 40 good years with your wife, Syd...and your corrrect, it's hard to watch loved ones suffer at times...prayers are with you and always will be...and there's not to much to be said that the others haven't already elegantly expressed...know your in our thoughts. Keep in touch with us all here. Your never alone with POE.