Pictures of England

Search:

Historic Towns & Picturesque Villages

A picture of RyeBath AbbeyA picture of Bath AbbeyBag End?A picture of Barton Le ClayA picture of Barton Le Clay

Assisted Suicide/Euthanasia - what are your opinions?

**Please support PoE by donating today - thank you**
 
Lorraine
Lorraine
Posts: 215
Joined: 6th Apr 2008
Location: UK
quotePosted at 17:56 on 11th December 2008
I deliberately didn't watch the program about euthanasia last night , but I think most members here are my junior, and when people you have known for 30 or 40 years contract something like Motor Neurone disease, which is incurable, you begin to question what you would do in their position.   I would not wish  to spend 3 or 4 years in pain and with gradual loss of bodily function, including loss of ability to eat and loss of speech, and more than anything, complete loss of dignity.   When I was 40 or 50 I would have screamed against euthanasia, but my views have changed somewhat as I have got older.   At least I know that with my dicky ticker, and my arthritis, I'm either going to drop down dead with a heart attack, or stumble & fall into the path of a double decker bus and be killed instantly!....but I hope I'm not going to endure a long , painful, lingering, and far from peaceful, death.
My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions


Posts:
Joined: 1st Jan 1970
quote | editPosted at 18:59 on 11th December 2008

I didn't watch the programme, either. But I have sat at the bedside of patients that were breathing their last, and it was always a peaceful death, without the aid of euthanasia. Morphine often helps to assist that journey, and we all know that,

This is a difficult subject, but I think legalising euthanasia would most certainly lead to the abuse of it. The Abortion act  has lead to a quarter of a million babies being killed every year in the UK.  I don't think it can ever be right for us to end life deliberately, but I can understand why others feel differently.

My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions
Denzil Tregallion
Denzil Tregallion
Posts: 1764
Joined: 26th May 2008
Location: UK
quotePosted at 19:06 on 11th December 2008
they shoot horses dont they
My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions
Andy Edwards
Andy Edwards
Posts: 1900
Joined: 14th Mar 2008
Location: UK
quotePosted at 19:24 on 11th December 2008

It's a choice I would take. It's not just the person suffering that has to deal with the agony and the hopelessness, it's the wife/husband, children, relatives and friends also.  It is legalised cruelty to let people suffer, in my humble opinion. As long as the sufferer is lucid and can make a decision that everyone who loves him/her can understand and support then it should be up to him/her, not a doctor, consultant or lawyer. And certainly not religion, whatever that is.

We all make choices in life, some difficult, some easy. No matter which drugs are available, no matter which drugs work, an existence watching people that love you despairing at your situation is surely unsatisfactory, to put it mildly.

I am me, my life is mine, if I want to end it because that's my best choice who on this earth has the right to deny me? No-one morally, but plenty legally. The law is an ass. It's high time it changed.

 

My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions
Ruth Gregory
Ruth Gregory
Posts: 8072
Joined: 25th Jul 2007
Location: USA
quotePosted at 19:45 on 11th December 2008

This is a tough question.  On paper, it seems like the right thing to do.  But so does communism.  There's a lot "on paper" that seems right, but when you get down to brass tacks, it turns out to be wrong.  That's how I feel about assisted suicide.  Anyone has the freedom and opportunity to take their own life at any time, and many have chosen this route.  One of the previous owners of the house my husband grew up in hung himself in the barn due to a diagnosis of cancer.  But he left a lot of pain in his wake among his loved ones.

Assisted suicide would be open to a whole host of abuses, particularly like the ones you mentioned Ron.  I also harbor strong religious beliefs about this, that it's only God who should open that door, and in His time.  But it's also a gut feeling I have that it's wrong.  And IMHO, comparing putting a suffering animal out of its misery to assisted suicide of a human being is comparing apples and oranges, there is no comparison.  My vote is NO.

 

My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions
Andy Edwards
Andy Edwards
Posts: 1900
Joined: 14th Mar 2008
Location: UK
quotePosted at 19:53 on 11th December 2008
That's what forums are all about! I disagree with you Ruth, but I still love you just as much as I did before we both wrote here!
My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions
Ruth Gregory
Ruth Gregory
Posts: 8072
Joined: 25th Jul 2007
Location: USA
quotePosted at 19:56 on 11th December 2008

Same to you, Andy!! 

 

My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions


Posts:
Joined: 1st Jan 1970
quote | editPosted at 09:22 on 12th December 2008

Below is an extract from an e mail I received from our own Lyn G who has been reading this thread with interest. I do have her permission to post this on here.

'Been there myself regarding that, right back in 1973/76 with my mother in law, she was only 52 and had 3 years of being bed ridden, having to have her husband and sons and daughter in laws do everything for her, the only thing that worked for her was her memory and she begged us to help her die, she had no dignity left. She had a very bad stroke 3 weeks after we got married, on my birthday!!! So as the saying goes been there done that bought the t shirt. If we could have helped her then we would! Nothing worse than seeing a lovely woman like that lay in bed not being able to speak coherently, swallow properly, have any control over any of her limbs or bowel movements, not being able to see properly the list goes on.. and crying... trying to make us understand what she wanted. Lots more I could say about this but I wont because even now it upsets me to think of her that way. Therefore I'm for euthanasia 100% and until any of you have to go through this, think about the person themselves, lying there with full faculties and not being able to die voluntarily with dignity, just because some law says its not allowed!!'

Lyn G what a really sad, heart breaking thing to go through, I am guessing you was quite young at the time as you say you had only just got married. you have been through so much and coped admirably. Lyn, I do wish you would consider returning to posting on the forum and Wolf, you both have so much to give and for me things are not the same without you both.

My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions
Richard Sellers
Richard Sellers
Posts: 4691
Joined: 16th Jul 2008
Location: USA
quotePosted at 11:27 on 12th December 2008

I am wih Andy and Lyn G on this one.I sometimes think it is selfish to want to keep someone we love here with us when it is there wish to go peacfully and with a sense of dignity.

I understand where Ruth is comming from,having been raised that God is the one to make that choice,yet,until it hits home with you and those you love, it is a whole other world.

My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions
Cathy E.
Cathy E.
Posts: 8474
Joined: 15th Aug 2008
Location: USA
quotePosted at 13:33 on 12th December 2008

I am against assisting a human to die. If God wanted them to go he would take them. It is not our decision. There are lessons to learn in our suffering that we do not have knowledge of yet. And won't until we pass through the veil! It may sound harsh but God gave us the people around us for comfort and love. Maybe he is using that person to help teach lessons to those around him/her. He also wants us to turn to him to ask for help. We cannot expect it if we don't ask.

Putting an animal down is different. God gave us power over all the creatures of the earth.  Animals cannot help each other the same way humans can. They need us to love them, comfort them and when the time is necessary to end their suffering. Animals do not have the capability of praying to God for the help.  

My favourite: Pictures  |  Towns  |  Attractions