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Shirley K. Lawson Posts: 2310 Joined: 17th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 22:21 on 11th May 2009 As for relationships..I knew this guy one time, and we were mutal friends, and when he'd get on my nerves, or I would his.. instead of screaming and hollaring and fighting about it, I'd look at him, shaking my head slowly, look at him softly and say "bastard"..in an low voice,,,and he'd reply back.."bitch" to me sometimes for what I was thinking...and this would go on back an forth between us for an bit, but we never said anything in terible heightened emotion of anger, just and kind of stuble what we thought it was the other was propsing and what it made them into. Either an bastard or an bitch. After an while, we'd take an deep breathe and say, "I'll think about it".. an drop the issue all together...talk about something else. We also had to part one day, but we never did in an fight or argument. Just his path went differently then the one I was on...and I understood that I suppose...time changes all things. I can though now look back and remember stupid little stuff like this...five mins. of exchanging "bitch" and bastard" to each other softly, yet meaning it at times...thinking things over. I don't know if we "clicked" though... occasionally I run into him and enjoy the discussion in what he's doing these days.. that's about it. Lives have dramatically changed in such an short time. |
Bob T Posts: 934 Joined: 8th Jan 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 00:32 on 12th May 2009 What makes you CLICK with someone? handcuffs |
Krissy Posts: 15430 Joined: 8th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 00:37 on 12th May 2009 That can be either good or bad!! LOL!! |
Debbie Adams Posts: 2043 Joined: 8th Mar 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 01:52 on 12th May 2009 |
Shirley K. Lawson Posts: 2310 Joined: 17th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 04:51 on 12th May 2009 I think there's days when I'd love to have someone think about me for an change. I know I sound like an demanding person, and I suppose in some ways I am, but but then again..Ive' never had anyone to lean on. Nope, not my hubby, he was always gone and busy with something else in his life. He's helped me moneywise through the years and with things, but we don't talk like we are |
Marianne Hoodless Posts: 130 Joined: 10th Apr 2009 Location: UK | quotePosted at 07:36 on 12th May 2009 I am usually guilty of making quick judgements and have often been wrong! It is difficult to pinpoint any specifics but sense of humour is a common link with all my friends. Laughter is a great 'bonder' when I have just met someone! I am finding that it is easier to make friends now I am older-maybe I am more laid back and thus able to appreciate different qualities in people that I meet. All my friends are very different in character! I have known some friends from way back and some I have met very recently but I truly appreciate them all. It doesn't matter if our views on things differ-sometimes that makes for some interesting debates! Friends enrich our lives eh? |
lancashirelove Posts: 1986 Joined: 18th Feb 2009 Location: UK | quotePosted at 09:13 on 12th May 2009 ah! 'Click'. emmm that word makes me laugh when I think of a Tv programme a few months back. A certain well known wealthy music artist was going through a well documented divorce settlment. The show I was watching was a chat show and as the guest, A certain Australian 'women' was walking down the stage steps in extremly over-the-top high-heeled shoe's, cilp-clop-clip-clop- went her shoe's. The guest then turned to 'her' host and said ' ..bet you thought that was S..... ......y coming down, did'nt you? The whole audience and stage crew gasps out loud. Only this certain 'Aussie' could have got away with that remark! lol |
Shirley K. Lawson Posts: 2310 Joined: 17th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 16:54 on 12th May 2009 I'm reading about an "aussie" right now also,..an Helen Tracy..age 45, 5 foot 5, started the curves plan in March 2007, in Nundah Village, Austrialia, pounds lost ...544 pounds...she started at 832 pounds. Her class gave her 231 red roses , one for every kilogram of weight she had lost. You can't but help admire people whom make it to the sucess line with these odds...she must have an excelleant "metabolism" too!!! |
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