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Jeannie Fetters Posts: 189 Joined: 8th Apr 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 12:56 on 26th May 2009 I have changed my mind, please let this thread die out. sorry, thought it was a good one-guess not. Jeannie Edited by: Jeannie Fetters at:26th May 2009 18:44 |
Ray Stear Posts: 1930 Joined: 25th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 19:11 on 26th May 2009 Hello Jeannie, There is nothing wrong with your thread. The trouble is, I have so many days when nothing goes right, I really would not know where to start! Have a nice evening and try to relax.
Ray. |
Jeannie Fetters Posts: 189 Joined: 8th Apr 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 22:06 on 26th May 2009 Oh, Ray......it is so hard being a parent,... and trying to figure out how to be an adult when your not even for sure how you are supposed to feel inside anymore. I'm trying to bea good mom to my kids. and My mom has done nothing but gripe at me for the last 2 days. About me not doing this right and me not doing that right, and I should do this , and I should do that. And I'm on the computer, I still have dishes in my sink. Some times it's like she wants me to grow up, and other times, she still treats me like a child. I'm 37. Some times I don't even know how an adult is supposed to act, I disapline my kids as best as I can, my mom says you can't disipline, and be there best friend at the same time. My boy that is 16 likes my 11 year old daughter. I don't trust this boy, as he is mischievious. I feel like sometimes I have so much on my plate that the plate is gong to break, and I can't hold it up anymore. I like this man that is 25 and he likes me, but I'm 37. I am so much older than him. I fear that with his disability that if I dated him, I'd endup taking care of him the rest of his life. not him taking care of me. I just don't know sometimes how I am supposed to feel. Sorry I busted up bawling on you. I guess I fianlly just snapped. |
Shirley K. Lawson Posts: 2310 Joined: 17th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 03:22 on 27th May 2009 Hey, gal since when was it easy to be everytihng to everyone,... be yourself and forget the rest of it, and enjoy life an bit. there are times nothing you could ever do would please some people, why try? Live the example you would want your children to take and let it go otherwise. In another 10 years your kids will most likley be off an on their own, doing what they want to do, take that into cosideration. Don't fight it,... it's natural for them between now and then to become their own person. Just say, if you need help, I'll be here. Let it go. Idon't think with the doubts you have about this younger fella that he is the one for you possibly, but you never know, try the field an bit and see what happens. Life is tough these days for everyone any more. Understand you not alone, and move on..you gotta make your life what you want it, isn't it nice to know you have the freedom of that in some ways. Go for it! Don' twaste your precisous time on things that don't suit you. Support groups are all over these days. Different ones for different reasons also, but they are all there waiting to help you along to be your best and happiest if possible, |
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