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cathyml Posts: 23275 Joined: 25th Jan 2010 Location: South Africa | Posted at 20:53 on 26th April 2011 I would have a large moral dilemma here. When I was growing up you just felt you could trust your policemen and like you Diana I did find a purse with I think about GBP10 in it and I took it to the Police Station. They said if it wasn't claimed I could have it. Blowed if I can remember now what happened. But I think if I took a large amount of money to any Police Station here the money would just disappear and so would the docket! So I am not sure what I would do about it. But I don't think I could keep it myself. Perhaps put it into a safety deposit box and speak to a lawyer or just hand it all to a worthy charity if I couldn't find out where it had come from. This is such an interesting question I think it should keep going. |
Brenda Harvey Posts: 297 Joined: 28th Mar 2011 Location: USA | Posted at 23:49 on 26th April 2011 A funny thing happened to me once that relates to this question. I walked out onto my porch one morning and found a yellow purse laying there. It wasn't my purse and had $30.00 in it and some change, nothing else. I couldn't imagine how it got there and never found out. I felt badly just keeping it so I asked all the neighbors if they recognized it. When they didn't, I asked a young girl who used to walk her dog by my house if she knew anyone who'd lost a purse. It looked like a younger girl's purse. I actually called the police station and told them about it, but they said since I'd asked all around and if no one claimed it within 30 days that I should keep it. I still have the purse, but did eventually spend the money. I still feel badly about it, though. I'd like to know how it happened to land on my porch. Same question or, if you'd like to change, what would you do if you saw someone shoplifting food in a grocery store? Would you report them? |
cathyml Posts: 23275 Joined: 25th Jan 2010 Location: South Africa | Posted at 19:32 on 27th April 2011 Oh dear! Another dilemma. I honestly think in this country it would depend what was being stolen and by whom. In other words if I saw a very poor person with a loaf of bread I would either turn a blind eye or give them the money to pay for it. However I would report almost any other type of shop lifting because we ultimately end up paying higher prices to cover the amout of goods stolen so if there is more theft we pay more. How do others feel about this? |
James Prescott Posts: 25952 Joined: 11th Jan 2010 Location: UK | Posted at 19:56 on 27th April 2011 in the mid 60s i worked in a meat store and was chatting to this chap who was a neighbour of mine little did i know he had a large quantity of meat in his very large hold-all--i went for my dinner and on my return my boss asked me who he was and asked him why he wanted to know to which he replied look at this ---to my amazement there was about £ 30 worth of meat which was a lot of money in them days.he had emptied his bag and ran off. i told my boss i didnt know his name or where he lived but in the evening on my way home from work i called at his house and told him not to come in the store again,----i was responsible for stock loss i must add. |
Ruth Gregory Posts: 8072 Joined: 25th Jul 2007 Location: USA | Posted at 18:43 on 29th April 2011 I think my answer's the same as yours, Cathy. Have you ever been to Westminster Abbey?
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James Prescott Posts: 25952 Joined: 11th Jan 2010 Location: UK | Posted at 18:54 on 29th April 2011 never been there ruth does your partner snore. truth please. |
Ruth Gregory Posts: 8072 Joined: 25th Jul 2007 Location: USA | Posted at 18:56 on 29th April 2011 I don't know, because I drown him out. lol James, you must go there sometime. So much history. I don't think most people (at least in America) know how old the cathedral is. Do you snore? truth please |
Marjorie Pope Posts: 6710 Joined: 13th Apr 2010 Location: UK | Posted at 19:01 on 29th April 2011 Mine used to snore so badly we had separate rooms quite early on in our marriage! Nightmare! You asked for the truth James! LOL Do you like visiting historic buildings? |
Ruth Gregory Posts: 8072 Joined: 25th Jul 2007 Location: USA | Posted at 19:09 on 29th April 2011 I love to visit historic buildings. That's one reason I love it so much over there. We're a little short on them where I live, although Arizona is having its centennial next year. What's the best ancient building or monument or historical site you've ever visited? I think mine were the abbeys at Whitby and Rievaulx and Salisbury Cathedral. Over here, probably Independence Hall in Philadelphia.
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James Prescott Posts: 25952 Joined: 11th Jan 2010 Location: UK | Posted at 19:18 on 29th April 2011 the most spectacular one in my mind is york minster i have been there a few time's it is well worth seeing. have you ever been to a fortune teller. |