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Jeannie Fetters
Jeannie Fetters
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quotePosted at 16:59 on 4th May 2009

This is dedicated to my beloved new husband Paul. We are getting married soon in England, and I am very excited. And I am hoping to visit the C.S. Lewis Tours, as well as many other places, on our honeymoon. I also am  hoping to invite a few friends from POE, depending on our budget, arrangements etc. If you have any comments or England guidelines as to the decorating of our wedding, traditions, old wives tales,etc.we welcome them. We are going to make this as elegant as possible. As we are truely in love. We stepped out on faith, trusted God, and our hearts, and here we are. And we are getting married. My friends in POE, I want to thank you for all your supportive sweet warm comments. And God Bless everyone. love your friend Jeannie 

      



Edited by: Jeannie Fetters at:4th May 2009 17:01
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Ruth Gregory
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quotePosted at 17:03 on 4th May 2009

Best wishes to you, Jeannie and God bless.

 

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Paul Hilton
Paul Hilton
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quotePosted at 18:47 on 4th May 2009

To give you an idea of a typical Church of England wedding Jeannie........

The church used is normally the one from where the bride comes from, and a few weeks prior to the wedding, the Banns are read for 3 weeks which informs people of the up-comming wedding.

Unlike an American wedding where there's loads of bridesmaids and groomsmen, the bride tends to have less bridesmaids---who are all single women, and a married one is known as a Matron of Honour----and the groom has no groomsmen at all. The groom has a Best Man who had assorted duties and other men there assisting are ushers.

In church, the brides family and friends sit on the left and all the groom's connections sit on the right.After most of the service is completed, the marriage certificate is signed and witnessed, and another blessing and prayers will follow.

Then to walk down the aisle, the bride and groom normally change places so he is now on her side of the family seated and vice versa. As they proceed up the aisle, the bridesmaids and Best Man follow; then parents/family, then friends as they leave the church. Wedding photos are done on the day, and none earlier.

But, it does seem more and more people are foregoing church weddings and using other places licenced to do weddings instead, like the hotel I'll be photographing a wedding at this comming weekend.

 



Edited by: Paul Hilton at:4th May 2009 19:01
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Barbara Shoemaker
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quotePosted at 20:01 on 4th May 2009

My fantasy would be to have a small country wedding in a village church as Alistair and Judy did on "As Time Goes By" with reception at the Manor, of course.  (I wonder if Mrs. Bale is available to cater?)  Wink

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Debbie Adams
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quotePosted at 02:54 on 5th May 2009

Hi Jeannie, Goodluck and i am so excited for you I hope all goes well and you 2 have a wonderful life together.;-))

  Hi Paul thats very intresting! I think ppl are going crazy with weddings anyway my neice is getting married next May and around here the cost is normally around 10,000 or more!! ( I say give ME the money and i will take a trip !LOL)Just crazy to me I belive in simple and close friends and family but these days its all for show and tell I think! And there is just something about not getting married in a church that just doesnt seem right, guess i am just old fashion,,lol

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quotePosted at 16:20 on 5th May 2009
Hi Jeannie, sorry if I've not welcomed you before but I've been absent from here for a while, but back now (hopefully lol) I hope your wedding goes off ok, I got married in a registry office wayyy back in olden times Debbie, and I don't regret it at all. I'm not in the slightest bit religous and it would have made me a hypocryte (sp?) if I had got married in Church. I just wanted a small simple do that didn't cost an arm and leg LOL 
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Jeannie Fetters
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quotePosted at 20:08 on 5th May 2009
I thank you all for all of your inputs, about how we are to do the wedding. I am uneducated on weddings in England. Although Paul (letter up above) is helping me, and I am grateful, as to Debbie as well, and others that have helped along the way. Do they allow any weddings in the parks, were their are flowers, flower bushes, gazebo, walk ways etc. I don't want to be chased by ducks though. remember I have never been to England. I don't know what England looks like much, except what I see in POE. So, I thank you for all of everyones pictures they send to POE for everyone to look at. I plan to send pictures of our wedding after they are taken, as it will be of England. Maybe others will be married in England as well someday. Remember I am welcoming any and all comments With me being from the States will I have trouble finding a church to marry us? Thank you all, I look forward into reading your comments. love Jeannie..
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Richard Sellers
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quotePosted at 20:12 on 5th May 2009
On 4th May 2009 20:01, Barbara Shoemaker wrote:

My fantasy would be to have a small country wedding in a village church as Alistair and Judy did on "As Time Goes By" with reception at the Manor, of course.  (I wonder if Mrs. Bale is available to cater?)  Wink



You will have to ask her what the weather is like in the english channel.....!

and Warm Congratulations,i'm sure Jeannie!!

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Diana Sinclair
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quotePosted at 20:18 on 5th May 2009
Congratulations on your wedding Jeannie. God bless! Laughing
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Jeannie Fetters
Jeannie Fetters
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quotePosted at 20:40 on 5th May 2009
Debbie, and everyone else, I am old fashioned as well, I plan to be married in a church, Paul is a christian, I am assuming we will marry in his church that he attends, or his mom. I am unsure where he goes to church at. But I again know for sure he is a christian, that was one of my top priorities. If it cost $10,000.00 and that's what Paul wants to spend, I'm all for it. If not, we' ll cut cost somewhere. I feel that the more we talk the more confident that I am sure he is ready to marry, maybe sooner than I think. He is in love and ready for a family. As I am in love and ready for the journey, with Jesus and my kids by myside. We both feel that God is to be the center of our relationship, and we are to serve him together as a family. He stuck with his standards for a mate and so did I, and we both fell in love with each other...the first minute we met. Our love grows stronger each time we talk.


As Ron and others (can't remember everyone) in POE explained to me, not everyone has good intensions, and to be careful what we write in our threads. To remember the whole world is reading. We both trusted God to lead us, and here we are. So, for those out there reading, True Love does exist, we merely have to be willing to listen to God, follow our heart, step out in faith, all while doing what God says and serve him with a true and willing heart. I know this is not I guess the place to put up scriptures as they are popping up in my mind, Just remember, with God, "all" things are possible. Paul and I found each other, from worlds apart. I'm in USA and he is from England.And God allowed this to happen, therefore all things are possible with God. God proved me wrong. And God ha given me Paul, and all my true friends in POE. love Jeannie

Edited by: Jeannie Fetters at:5th May 2009 20:47
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