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Ruth Gregory Posts: 8072 Joined: 25th Jul 2007 Location: USA | quotePosted at 01:09 on 22nd June 2009 Me too, Shirley. God bless.
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Rafal Bartkowiak Posts: 210 Joined: 21st Mar 2009 Location: UK | quotePosted at 15:53 on 22nd June 2009 Ups,I am sorry,a bit late but... Prayers and good wishes for everyone who need them ((((((((((((((((((((((...))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) . |
Cathy E. Posts: 8474 Joined: 15th Aug 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 16:40 on 22nd June 2009 Thanks Rafal! You're very sweet! |
Shirley K. Lawson Posts: 2310 Joined: 17th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 16:57 on 22nd June 2009 Yes, it's been an amazing years back for me, probably what's lead in ways to my own heart problems coping with it all..but the young kids I think were the worse, you ask yourself "why?"..they barely had an chance at living and life, so it is perhaps there's an purpose of some kind we are here, and when it's fulfilled, it's over maybe. You have to find an way to get through things. When my mother died...dad had her buried, but he didn't want to be buried when he died, he thought it was an expensive "rip-off", he asked to be cremated. So we honored his wishes. for years I went up an placed flowers on my mother's grave site. Then dad died, my step-mother hugged his ashes and said goodbye to us kids, for hers and her new life...in what started out my parents home..but that was that. I found come Memorial Day, there was nothing to "go to" to honor dad. As ironic as it sounds, I said to my hubby, well, we can go give mother flowers, but what about dad.. Have an BBQ? ,,,he chuckled..but I had never considered this before. As it was after some 20 years with mother, I kind of let the death issue just drop in ways... the last couple of years. Both would be the kind to say "move on" anyway. I think paying respect to "everyone" on Memorial Day is the answer now. I've seen my mother so many times after she died, and then there's dad, last time I saw him he was crabbing as he said he wanted his teeth, he managed to make it through my on-liine physic group for that revelation from him to another one of the people there, I had no idea he didn't have his teeth, so I asked my step-mother the next day, if she has dad's teeth..and she said, yes, I thought maybe someone could use them afterwards so last minute I had them take them out..so I guess dad did have something to complain about, but it's an bit late after you've been cremated to give them back to you..he better go see someone on the other side, eat soup, or start over as an "baby" again maybe. Death has its strange moments. |
Krissy Posts: 15430 Joined: 8th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 21:04 on 25th June 2009 Our Cathy is in the hospital. She was having chest pains and called an ambulance and was taken to the ER. She will be staying overnight and they will be doing a stress test on her. She sounds good, but tired. She asked for some prayers!! I told her there are many on their way already! I will call her later tonight and she said she will keep me posted as well. She has her cell on her if anyone wants to give her a call. It might cheer her up!! (((((((((((((((cathy)))))))))))))) |
Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 21:31 on 25th June 2009 Cathy we love you! Take care of yourself and rest. Prayers winging their way to you now sweetie! |
Paul Hilton Posts: 2605 Joined: 21st Nov 2004 Location: UK | quotePosted at 21:33 on 25th June 2009 Many thanks for your update Krissy and the only surprising thing being this hasn't happened sooner. She'll be in our thoughts and prayers. |
Debbie Adams Posts: 2043 Joined: 8th Mar 2009 Location: USA | quotePosted at 01:32 on 26th June 2009 Thanks Krissy for letting us know;-(( I talked with her for a while last night and she was really down,,poor thing i pray all will go well for her! HUGS CATHYXXXXXXX |
Krissy Posts: 15430 Joined: 8th Jul 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 01:57 on 26th June 2009 I just spoke with Cathy!! She is doing well and is resting!!! She is getting her stress test at 6:30 am!! YIKES!! LOL!! She said she will call again when she is done with the test!! |
Sue H Posts: 8172 Joined: 29th Jun 2007 Location: USA | quotePosted at 02:45 on 26th June 2009 Thanks for keeping us updated, Krissy. It's no surprise that Cathy's body has told her to take it easy. I hope she is listening. |