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Krissy
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quotePosted at 14:11 on 10th September 2008
Cathy!!  I'm so sorry you have to thru that!!!  We should get together soon!
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Cathy E.
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quotePosted at 14:48 on 10th September 2008

Krissy, I would love that! Want to go the the Renaissance Festival?

http://www.rennfest.com/ 

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Sue H
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quotePosted at 14:53 on 10th September 2008

My reaction would be to throw the hanger, shirt, Ironing board and iron right at him and tell him to do his own ironing, but alas, I've met men like him, and know that is not the way to go.

My heart goes out to you Catherine. I could tell you what I think you should do, but at times like this others advice is not helpful, that is why you need support and love.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Krissy
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quotePosted at 14:57 on 10th September 2008

Cathy!! Oh I'll check it out!!! I've never been to a renaissance fest!!

And Sue...I would react the same way!! 

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Cathy E.
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quotePosted at 15:00 on 10th September 2008
Thank you Sue. Your advice is always welcome. I wish I had the means to leave him. He likes to play mind games with me. First he asked if my girlfriend had hung the shirts on the hanger because he was going to blame her and ask that she not touch his clothes. When I told him I did it he made some comment about me not being right ( in the head) and told me that I messed up his system in the closet. He did thank me for ironing his shirts but not until after he beat me down. This happens so frequently. I feel like I have been knocked to the ground so many times that I can't possibly get up.
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Krissy
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quotePosted at 15:02 on 10th September 2008

Cathy...there is always a way out.  I've been where you are now.  It's heck...I know....and scary but you are worth so much more and deserve so much more.

I'm getting all teary now....

((((((((Cathy)))))))))))))

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Cathy E.
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quotePosted at 15:06 on 10th September 2008
I love you Krissy. Thanks for the hug and the support.
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Krissy
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quotePosted at 15:07 on 10th September 2008
Right back attcha!!! 
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Cathy E.
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quotePosted at 15:09 on 10th September 2008
Laughing
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Sue H
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quotePosted at 15:14 on 10th September 2008

Obviously he gets some kind of kick out of knocking you down, I want to tell you not to let him do that, to tell you that you have the power to NOT go down but I know it's not that easy for you and I appreciate that.

My husband and I watched just the same kind of man on Dr. Phil yesterday (gotta love Dr. Phil) and I told my husband that if he ever treated me like that I'd be out the door, or he would, but after 24 years and only one argument, I don't think he's going to.

I should talk to my friend whose husband is the same. He is so nice and friendly to everyone else but he treats her like crap. She has been married to him for 25 years, and I itch to ask her how she handles it without leaving him. Maybe I will ask, and see if anything she says may help you.

Until then, you know were here for you. 

 

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