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Stephanie Jackson Posts: 3911 Joined: 13th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 21:27 on 2nd April 2009 Yes I agree Ray - it was interesting and took my mind off all the real problems at the moment! |
MariaGrazia Posts: 711 Joined: 25th Mar 2008 Location: Italy | quotePosted at 23:16 on 2nd April 2009 On 2nd April 2009 19:35, Ray Stear wrote:
I wish you good luck with your plans , Ray...I did think it is about time for you to leave those poor donors alone! lol |
Ray Stear Posts: 1930 Joined: 25th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 23:37 on 2nd April 2009 thanks Mari, it is something I have been thinking of for ages, and have now decided. |
Ruth Gregory Posts: 8072 Joined: 25th Jul 2007 Location: USA | quotePosted at 05:54 on 3rd April 2009 On 2nd April 2009 10:54, MariaGrazia wrote:
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Ruth Gregory Posts: 8072 Joined: 25th Jul 2007 Location: USA | quotePosted at 06:41 on 3rd April 2009 Ray, Stephanie - GBH?
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Stephanie Jackson Posts: 3911 Joined: 13th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 06:46 on 3rd April 2009 Grievous Bodily Harm Ruth! He wouldn't really be that bad though, it's just a great set of initials to use! LOL! |
Ruth Gregory Posts: 8072 Joined: 25th Jul 2007 Location: USA | quotePosted at 07:03 on 3rd April 2009 Hi Stephanie: Fancy seeing you here!!! lol You're an early riser and I'm a night owl tonight. It's 11:03 here, Thursday night. I'm just fixin to turn in. But it's great to see you! |
Stephanie Jackson Posts: 3911 Joined: 13th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 07:05 on 3rd April 2009 Great to see you too Ruth - can't sleep at the moment! |
Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 14:06 on 3rd April 2009 On 3rd April 2009 05:54, Ruth Gregory wrote:
I agree on both points, Ruth. |
Xxxx Xxxx Posts: 292 Joined: 22nd Mar 2009 Location: Canada | quotePosted at 17:57 on 3rd April 2009 Very interesting discussion.. and due to armouring of personality over time, (actual stiffening of the body musculature & ligaments) from early insults, degradation of integrity ( childhood trauma etc.) creates a need for protection of the fragile inner self, and the tendency to lie to avoid real trusting intimacy, confrontation and genuine human honesty and truth..which is the only way to solve problems and move on......there is a morass of reasons to not be honest...to not be fully oneself...because, there has to be a convoluted payoff in fakery...what is that? Avoidance of the pain of being alive. In other words, no matter the details of the 'reason' for being dishonest on any level...there is an instinctual observance of minute behaviours that indicate the 'loved one' withholding an emotional stash. This little pile of whatever resentment, fears of betrayal, slowly build a wall protecting the other from facing a disturbing FACT...and also prevents the flow of love. So,paradoxically, love lives in the truth of things, and needs this honest base...even though it can be tough going for a while to work out the 'stuff' . "There is no remedy for love, it is a perpetual wound" Henry David Thoreau |