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Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 14:03 on 9th September 2008 Oh! Well then my friend let me enlighten you (at least from this woman's point of view)! An innocent flirtation would be, as way of example, my friend's new beau tells me that he is surprised because he really cares for my friend, but he realizes that he is very attracted to me and he finds this to be emotionally confusing. A lecherous flirtation would be if he kept winking at me, making sly comments, or attempting to touch me when ever my friend wasn't looking. Does that help? |
Ray Stear Posts: 1930 Joined: 25th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 14:07 on 9th September 2008 Yes, indeed, that makes it very clear to me. In a way too, that is (the latter) behaviour that is rank bad manners and bad taste, as well as harrassment. I cannot see how some men can carry on like that and feel that it is OK to do so. |
| Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 14:42 on 9th September 2008 That's because you are a good and honorable man Ray.  |
| Ray Stear Posts: 1930 Joined: 25th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 15:09 on 9th September 2008 Thankyou very much for the compliment Diana. I am not really. I have many many faults. I think because I went to a boys school I have always been quite shy and reticent with the opposite sex and never learned the genteel art of 'flirting' lol |
Cathy E. Posts: 8474 Joined: 15th Aug 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 15:25 on 9th September 2008 Doesn't matter about your faults Ray. You are a very kind and wonderful person. Your comments to me in the past have lifted my spirits. I think you do just fine. I have lots of faults, we all do but that doesn't make us less worthy of praise or love. Maybe I should take my own advice! |
| Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 16:20 on 9th September 2008 You seem to do alright here Ray! I think you are marvelous.  |
| Ray Stear Posts: 1930 Joined: 25th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 16:32 on 9th September 2008  |
| Diana Sinclair Posts: 10119 Joined: 3rd Apr 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 16:34 on 9th September 2008 In order to marry someone you love, you must change your religion. Do you do it? |
| Ray Stear Posts: 1930 Joined: 25th Apr 2008 Location: UK | quotePosted at 16:40 on 9th September 2008 I would say, for love, the sky is the limit! What is more important than the most important person in your life? I don't subscribe to the theory that happiness is being inflexible, or imposing your will on others. The most important thing is, if by changing your religion, it makes the other person happy, which in turn makes you happy because you have what you want. Then...everyone is happy. I am not sure if that makes sense....but I know what I mean. lol |
| Cathy E. Posts: 8474 Joined: 15th Aug 2008 Location: USA | quotePosted at 16:45 on 9th September 2008 Loving someone with all your heart is very important but you are still individuals and need to respect each other for who you are. |
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