Good Day "35"

I am back...broke Ron...got the message?....anyway he can't P on the grass, it's liable to bloom....and look like an "Pastie"...you know what those are these days...many of the gals have them you know.......esp if they visit "Victoria's Secret" shops.

Back to the bob's I'm aware of...one is my cousin..whom bounced on his head as an child...Donna's son....another was Goldie Moughila's..didnt' spell that right as that's how the name sounds...she use to to work for me, and was going with our maintinence man (Ray Lettenmeier) and I guess she married him eventually..he died prior to her also...but she had an gruelly son named Robert..that showed up on my door step the last Holiday my mother was alive and we all had off work...drunk as an skunk..dirty as all hell... and crying because he wanted an job. Then was my sister's in- law's freind named "Bob" whose wife has since died of Cancer, they were Candidan transplants to the USA....as for this "Bob" supposedly Pat's boyfriend..we talked all the time on the phone, she never mentioned him to me. the hospital told me that he brought her to the hospital when she died of pnuemonia...I had talked to her earlier in the week, she was very anxious talking and I asked her if she had an problem...as she was sellling her huge apt. complex...through this "Joan" and moving to another in Newport Beach....she said no problem on that one, it had went through...so I said, what's the mattter Pat..she said she had to go to the hospital that week for an biopsey for breast cancer..on an tumore they found...and I said...hey, that's nothing...they take care of stuff like that all the time...sometimes they arent' even cancerous. I told her then that our adminsitrator smoked like an freight train and had them all the time an none of them have came out "cancerous" as of yet.Last time I talked to her alive. We were not told that Pat had died, we found out when her housekeeper, and hispanic lady found one of maxine's letters and called her long distance and she callled me. It was then I called the hospital. In the beginning I got two different stories on her death...but finally they pinned it down to an "Bob" her boyfriend bringing her in, but could not give me his name or his where-abouts. Robert Batch was an old supervior of mine when I worked at Fred Meyers also. After getting rid of me, so I could never have an company pension..he moved into Richard Walker's job I think at office headquarters. His right side aide was an Barbara Hayworth back in those days and Pam Pantcoste...whom I use to like to call "Pam Pantyhose" because she took care of the hosiery section of the store when not checking customers. Our relationship was mostly "work" issues though....oppostie hours of the day. He never wanted me to change my house because it gave him the freedom of weekend's and nights off without problems...or he could count on me to be there at work...my son was an baby back in those days...I took care of during the day...my hubby night's and weekends. He never really got rid of me, they kept changing managers on me and telling me I had to work the same hours for them also...despite my seniority.  There's an few other "Bob's I know..but of course my Cardiologist is about the newest one I've dealt with. He's becoming better though at handling out "pills" these days I think. We had an Joan workign with us at Fred Meyers also..she ran the shoe department. Hubby had an guy named Robert that worked with him...Moore..Marrow...who was on the make with the Kiley girl down in Wood Village that was aneighbor...very proverty ridden family I might add also...extremely dirty. An Sharon Marrow was renting my freind's house two doors up from where we lived back then, in an storm thier oil furnance went out...she built and fire in it...it backfired black soot through all the heating vents in the house they moved out in the middle of the night..leaving my freind stuck with the cost of cleaning and changing the furnace. My brother "James" was married to Sharon Anderson...whose dad was an Robert also. Sharon Anderson had an baby girl by my "ex" stepmother's son Byron...before dad married "Betty" after mother died...and they were going together way before mother died...she barely got her divorce agreement through in time to marry dad out-of state.... in Vancouver, Washington. Sharon was todl to "fend of r herself" also in life...so she was hanging on "Betty" as my brother's wife left him...with her daughter just born to go back to her parents in Eugene Oregon. That daughter has two daughters now also. She has spent an lot of time in jail for drugs as is most of southern Oregon and Native Americans from what I am told. I have seen very little of these people in my life. I was telling you before how aunt "Donna and aunt Joan" fought constantly...and JOan said after my mother died "Now her family comes first"...what an joke.  Now you can see why I'd like to have an quiet liitle place somewhere wheremost the time relatives can't find me either. It has taken me years to understand  the controlling mechanism of why these people do what they do. Then also to I have my own problems, esp this gal following me around to make sure my ancestors "family" is the way she wants it off  spinning an second marriage also. Let her have it, we all die and despite what is said..the truth comes out. That is whyI find an William, an Harry, and an Charles in my family and in England there is an charles, William and Harry in it also. I don't know if that was done theses days to make up for the days past...but there is an subject of the "end of the world" issues at stake...along with the Masonic Lodge and the Catholic faith. Then to we have John Lawson also...and the subject of "Ruby Castle" over there...and the Planegents...an line of original Templar Knights and founders of the the Masonic Lodge/Priory of Scion.  People were saying that they did not know if they could find any templar knights wealth from socalled Jerusalem around Rosslin Castle....I think they would be better to look for it over here...by way of the Percy/Pierce family...or maybe in the arches of the Caterbury Cathedral over there if Thomas Lawson had his hand in it's building as I suspect. But do remember...the "treasure" is as much spiritua...l as it is material wealth. Everyone else is fighting for suvival from teh sounds of things. Probably the only thing dad ever said to me was "You can't take it with you" to which I replied, yeah, but you got to have something to live on while your still alive also. My dad was an man that lived for his own personal comfort daily...not his wealth. As long as he had his " newer" car, and an meal in his stomach and as he use to say...and bed to sleep in and an table to sit at..he was happy.But let me assure, he was just as selfish without these things as was..... or is anyone else in " taking"  them otherwise. It seems to be man's nature...one he has tagged "success" in obtaining. I read the other day...Men "take" and women "care".  Divorce comes from the inequailty of that in an marriage...when one side doesnt' care and the other never gives.

Hi everyone!  It looks as though we might have a clear night tonight - at least it is at the moment.

Lovely to see you ladies - definitely needing female support around here with all the testosterone in the forums!!  Lol.

I see you are busy, busy, busy Shirley!  Do take care of yourself!  Just reading your messages makes me feel tired by the amount you do and achieve!!